CJ don’t. I think that’s exactly what Edel doesn’t want. Being root down, and being taken care of while his lover watches him deteriorate. He doesn’t like being a prunus, or at least the “end” of the prunus lifespan. I am formally requesting you stop flirting with him for fun. If you really meant your words I would inform you, you need to tell him you really mean it, but I know you are doing it to get on his nerves. Please move to another person.